The complicated aspect of divorce proceedings is deciding what to do with the family home. Leveraging over a decade of experience in real estate, Scotty offers practical solutions by discussing the various options available to couples.
Scotty outlines four primary paths couples can take with their homes:
Keep your home and understand your options with our Divorce Home Buyout Calculator.
Dividing the family home is often one of the most important financial decisions made during a divorce.
This calculator is designed to help you estimate how much equity is available, what loan amount may be needed, and how much income may be required to qualify for a refinance or buyout.
Whether you are trying to keep the home or decide if selling is the better option, understanding the numbers is the first step.
At Gifford Home Loans, we help borrowers explore a wide range of mortgage solutions, including:
As both licensed mortgage professionals and real estate experts, we can help you understand both the financing and property value sides of the decision.
A divorce buyout allows one spouse to keep the home by refinancing the mortgage into their own name and paying the other spouse for their share of the accessible equity.
The refinance can be structured to:
Navigating the challenges of divorce can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to figuring out what to do with the family home.
Many individuals are unaware of the possibility to buy out their spouse and access up to 95% of their home's equity.
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Our Divorce Home Buyout Calculator helps you estimate:
You can also enter:
This allows you to answer one of the most common questions:
How much income is needed to afford a divorce buyout?
Suppose:
The maximum new loan may be approximately:
0.95 × $450,000 = $427,500
After paying off the existing mortgage and estimated fees:
$427,500 − $350,000 − $10,000 = $67,500
Accessible equity available to divide would be about $67,500.
Assuming if the spouses split this equally, the departing spouse could receive approximately $33,750.
The retaining spouse would need a new mortgage of roughly:
$350,000 + $33,750 + $10,000 = $393,750
This is why it is important to calculate accessible equity after fees, not simply divide total equity.
Standard Cash-Out Refinance
Typically limited to 80% of the home's value in Texas.
Owelty Lien Refinance
May allow qualified borrowers to access up to 95% of the home's value, depending on program guidelines.
Selling the home may provide access to more equity than refinancing, but seller closing costs and Realtor fees will still reduce the amount ultimately divided between spouses.
In many Texas home sales, total selling costs may range from approximately 7% to 8.5% of the sales price, including Realtor commissions and title/closing fees.
That is why it is important to calculate net proceeds, not just estimated equity.
While refinance closing costs are often lower than selling costs, refinancing may limit accessible equity based on loan-to-value guidelines. Selling the property may unlock more equity overall, but higher transaction costs must still be considered.
Taxes Considerations
One advantage of a divorce buyout refinance is that it is typically not a taxable event between spouses. In contrast, selling the home may create potential capital gains tax consequences if the property has significantly increased in value.
One of the biggest mistakes divorcing couples make is agreeing to a buyout before confirming financing is possible.
Getting pre-approved can help determine:
Understanding these numbers before mediation can help avoid agreements that cannot be completed.
In most cases, the lender will order the appraisal through approved channels if one is required.
Ordering your own appraisal usually cannot be used for mortgage underwriting and may result in unnecessary costs.
In general, transferring ownership of a home between spouses as part of a divorce settlement is not considered a taxable event.
However, if the home is later sold, capital gains tax rules may apply depending on your situation. Consult your tax advisor for guidance.
Most lenders will review:
Borrowers must be able to qualify based on their income alone after the divorce.
The answer depends on:
Our calculator provides a realistic starting point so you can evaluate whether keeping the home is affordable.
Whether you are considering:
We can help you understand your options and guide you through the process.
Start by using the Divorce Home Buyout Calculator to see what your numbers look like.
Divorce is more than an ending—it’s a new beginning.
This chapter in your life is filled with both fear and challenges, but also an opportunity for growth and hope. In Two Roads, One Journey, Amber and Scotty share their powerful story of resilience, faith, and healing through one of life’s most difficult transitions.
Together, they offer a unique perspective on divorce—not just as an end, but as an opportunity for profound personal transformation, spiritual renewal, and the reclaiming of one’s purpose.
Amber’s story is filled with raw honesty, having lived through not only her own divorce but also multiple divorces in her family. Through faith, she learned to embrace this painful season as an opportunity for growth. Amber’s journey through divorce was painful, but it ultimately led her to a place of healing and self-discovery. Her story is one of overcoming emotional turmoil and learning to embrace life’s challenges as opportunities for growth.
Through her experiences, Amber discovered that even in the most painful moments, divorce can be a catalyst for profound change, reshaping not just her life, but her entire perspective on what it means to heal and grow.
Scotty’s story, though different, shares the common thread of struggle, fear, and self-discovery. Grounded in truth, his journey through divorce taught him that it doesn’t define him, but rather, it’s part of his growth. He offers wisdom gained through his own experience, helping readers understand that while divorce is difficult, it’s not the end of your story—it’s a crossroads; a moment to redefine your path.
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
Romans 8:28
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